most of the dbOutput components contain a field: "Action on data" This can take care of your update/insert logic.
you can use a tFilterRow or a tMap output filter to separate out NULL rows.
if you are generating your keys with sequences/autoincrement, you can insert child rows by using the "Additional columns" in the advanced settings of your DB output.
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